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Some thoughts about Niteflirt

 Niteflirt.  It's where you go to lose money, and possibly be entertained. The first time I ventured onto Niteflirt was in January 2021, to send a message to SoftSandalWood - a California (if I'm remembering right) based dominatrix with, quite frankly, a very wholesome take on all things sissy fetishism related.  I was incredibly inexperienced (as everyone is at some point). We had a rather enlightening conversation, which became a bit stilted when I outlined my previous experiences with doms IRL - and she brought up the question, "why was I looking for someone online?" I've come to the conclusion that I have an itch that needs scratching - and it's a transactional one. There's something wonderful about doing a kink scene with someone else in real life, or online, for the fun and mutual benefit of it - keeping things SSC, RACK, all that kind of stuff, without any financial entanglement - but at the same time, I like paying for the professional engagement....